I wanted to address some of the questions friends and family regularly have asked me. One of the most common is about the two of us living together in a 21.5' by 7' travel trailer- how can we stand being together so much, what about personal space? I am asking Charlie to weigh in on this as well.
Eileen - Most of the time with RVing - you are someplace warm; therefore, you spend a lot of time outdoors. However, you can never predict weather - rain, cold, etc... We find our common living space just large enough for us to be comfortable if we have to be inside. I have my own chair, Charlie has the couch. If I want some separation, I go into our "bedroom". I can watch TV there or read or play with my phone -out of his view (and him out of mine). There are ways to create private time and space. I like to go walking, I like to cook, I am always looking up things for us to do. I get in my own head. So far, it works for us. Also, fellow-RVers are very friendly people so we do get some social interaction even while on the road. We are all interested in where we are all from and where we are all going. Everyone is on the move and happy to share information and experiences. More and more we meet fulltimers. It is a good life! It is simple, less complicated.
Charlie - I always find things to do. It's not like you're stuck in looking at four walls - you get creative and somehow find things to do. I'm never bored. I have my HAM radio and will be able to my practice my keyboard once we get to Bandera. Eileen is good company and not demanding. The time goes by really fast, there is always something different. Different views, landscapes. Our bed is a very cozy nook and don't forget, we have Minnie as an interferer. We also work together as a team. Even with driving - I may do all the driving but Eileen is the navigator. It's all new territory for both of us.
To sum up - all I can say is, so far, so good. Charlie lets me lead in many areas and I depend on him in others. We do a lot of activities away from our tiny home, so we actually look forward to returning. I think the two of us are homebodies by nature. I hope when we ultimately reach our winter home in Bandera, we will be doing more things separately; developing a social life and making some friends.
How did you figure out your route for this trip and decide on the stops, pick the campsites, etc...?
Firstly, I love the planning aspect. This trip was originally scheduled for a year ago so I wasn't sure it would ever happen. We haven't had very good luck with long range plans in the past. I still have to keep telling myself now "It has really happened!!
Firstly, I picked our ultimate destination - Skyline Ranch in Bandera, TX - from recommendations of other RVers. I had certain criteria I was looking for - warmer winter location (not necessarily "tropical" but no snow); affordable - full service RV campground (social activities, clubhouse, laundry, bathhouse, etc,,,) proximity to interesting sites and fun venues. Skyline Ranch, what I read from their website, as well as reviews from other campers - sounded like a good fit. Hopefully we will be happy there!
The getting there was simple. I went to Google Maps - plodded in Stoughton to Bandera - and voila! A route! Basically, that was the route I went by, with some modifications. I then looked at the total mileage - approximately 2200 miles - and picked about 14 stops - limiting travel days to between 150- 200 miles. We decided to leave on October 1st - giving us a month to travel slowly. I also looked up campgrounds in the locations we were planning to stop.. Some locations - like Shenandoah, Hot Springs - are more well known; there are a lot more campgrounds/RV parks to choose from as well as things to do. The smaller or lesser known places, like Fort Chiswell or Matamoras or Tyler - although fewer campgrounds - were not as booked; I just Google things to do in the area - there are always fun things to do! Since I did not book much beyond the first few stops before we left, I proceeded to book everything within the first week and actually had to change a couple of stops because places I had planned for had no openings. There are always options!
How do you get your mail, pay your bills?
We have a great home base (as is referred to in the RV world)! Living in our in-law apartment in Brooke and Rakib's home- gives us a lot of flexibility. We know when we are away, someone is there looking after things as we do for them when they are away (when we are home). Since we do not own a home anymore - we have very few bills. And the bills we do have - insurance mostly - we pay annually. We get very little postal mail (besides junk) Brooke will open the mail, let me know if it is anything is of importance. If it is - she takes a photo of it, texts it to me, and I can handle from that point. I pay my credit card electronically, I do all of my banking electronically. The internet has made life so easy!
How do get your prescriptions, see your doctors?
One thing we did this past year was get all our doctor visits in. We both saw our primary care physicians within a few weeks of leaving and asked for hand written prescriptions for all our meds to take with us. Even Minnie had her vet appointment and shots (we have a copy of her records with us, just in case she needs to be kenneled; some campgrounds even require proof of vaccines) Of course I did my research; Bandera has a CVS, which is where I have my scripts filled; I did have Charlie's transferred during the year from Walgreens to CVS to keep things simple. I also called the CVS in Bandera to make sure we would have an easy transition. It should go seamlessly. We did get our regular flu shots before we left and plan to get our COVID boosters in Bandera.
Do you eat out at restaurants a lot?
In the past four weeks, I have prepared all of our meals except a handful. We try not to eat out that much for a few reasons. The main one is health (the cost would be second). I have to be very careful about watching what I eat as I can easily gain weight. I try to reserve eating out for something special I want (like than damn fried chicken I have yet to have - I think it will be in Austin!) I also try to exercise. I have not been doing as many workout videos or weight training like at home; I am hoping once I get to Bandera I will have more of a routine (plus they have a fitness room!) I am getting in my walking most days. So far, I have been maintaining my weight and I feel good about that, but it is very challenging. (Yes! I did bring my scale) I also really enjoy the cooking. When you are relaxed without a lot of pressures, cooking can be very enjoyable. I try to vary up all our meals everyday. It has been a fun, creative outlet for me. I have lots of recipes I plan to try as well - and now with my new toaster oven - baking will definitely be in my future!
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The RV world has all it's bases covered. There are many resources and even a community - called Escapees - that offers assisted living to fulltime RVers who reach that time of life when they can no longer care for themselves but still live in their rigs. I follow Podcasts and YouTube shows produced by fulltime families, who share a lot of information, experiences and great tips; some we have implemented into our living - everything from getting a surge protector for our electrical hookups - to getting better gas mileage when pulling our trailer. We keep on learning new and better ways to improve our living space and this way of life we have chosen.